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From expensive beauty counter buys to drugstore secrets, I've tried and tested allllll the brands. I’ve perfected a simple 10 item makeup bag and will tell you how the order for how I apply them…

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Hair Products That'll Change Your World

A story that starts with the Queen’s hairdresser giving me his #1 hair secret and a list of 8 things I swear by to keep my hair as long and healthy as possible. This includes my favorite overnight hair mask, the best dry shampoo, cream that perfectly sets your ends and keeps them from looking frizzy, and most importantly my favorite hair wand I’ll never stop using...

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5 Red Flags You’re Wasting Time

If you’re having doubts, then you’re probably ignoring the main red flags in a doomed relationship and are wasting your time. Let’s start a countdown with the 5 Biggest Red Flags that’ll help you decipher if someone is really into you…

Dating App 101: If You Hate Them, You’re Doing It Wrong.

With a never ending supply of good looking men and women in your pocket, can these virtual rolodexes lead to quality relationships? Hopefully, this article will get you to think differently about dating apps. Whether you’re brand new to them or have despised them for years, this is your DATING APP 101. In 10-mini chapters, I’ll tell you a few tips for how you should craft your profile, which two apps are my favorite, real-life funny stories, and my least favorite opening line.

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The Most Addictive Thing I've ever Smelled

I'm going to tell you about a scent that men AND women ask me about on a daily basis. People question me about it in ubers… or come up to me after I walk by. It's little 3 x 3 inch and I never, ever, leave home with it. I take it to the gym (I swear it makes your workout more motivating), dates (duh), dinner, and going out (extra duh).

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Dating Profile Help

I worked for a dating app (owned by Bumble), and learned the tips and secrets for how people become the most popular users. This ranges from which pictures to choose (and what’s the secret number to upload), the psychology behind opening lines, and some absolute-NO's that not everyone knows about…

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Clueless in MANHATTAN

Cher Horowitz takes over Manhattan in these amazing yellow plaid pants (90s perfection), a chunky black sweater, and gaudy gold accessories…

Metallic Blazers

I’ve been really into metallic blazers and this silver one is my absolute favorite. Check out how I style this statement piece and see my top 10 metallic blazers to buy right meow…

Sweater Skirts

Knit/sweater skirts are V in for fall. So much so, I had trouble finding some still in stock! They’re beyond comfortable (feels like you have a built in blanket when you’re scrunched up sitting at your desk). I didn’t want to look too girly so I made sure to pair it with menswear items.

Sunday Errands

Statement coats are the new accessory. Pair any low-key outfit with one that’s a little bold. This houndstooth and fur pocket beauty is cool AF. Pair it with vintage sneakers and you have the perfect New York errand look.

P.S. use code TREAT for the coat this week and get 30% off.

Seattle Supersonics

In honor of my hometown Seattle’s favorite basketball team of the 90s, here’s how I style a green biker jacket, GOLD pants and my favorite tennis shoes…

Boyfriend Hunting

I love wearing menswear outfits and I’m pairing two of my favorite tom-boy styles together: BOYFRIEND BLAZERS and COMBAT BOOTS. Everything I’m wearing is under $100 and some on sale…

80’s CEO

This is the most complimented look I’ve worn in a while. Even though it’s cooling down outside, you can still wear this at night. Pair my two favorite (and IMHO sexiest) trends: Biker Shorts and the Blazer/Belt/No-Shirt look. Learn how to wear it here…

Green With Envy Silk Pajama Suit

I just came back from Paris Fashion Week, and the sexy pajama silk trend is one of the biggest trends of the moment. I’m talking, the lady that heads up women’s wear daily was wearing a similar one to mine in Navy at a personal dinner party. Learn more about this green with envy silk suit I’m obsessed with…

Oui Oui, Mon Ami

French style, with a scrunchie flair.

Deep V Silk Date Night

Sexy, chic, and so much V.

Clueless in the Hamptons

Cher Horowitz takes over Montauk.

90s Baby

Baby Spice, check.

Fiesta

DIY sunny summer perfection.

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The Secrets of Thirty Waves

A little “about me” section and how I learned my secrets for 30-somethings on dating, beauty, fashion, and New York…This includes life hacks (such as finding the best hair cut in NYC that’s only $40), to amazing beauty tips (my best friend is a celebrity make-up artist), the best anti-aging skin care routine, or learn how-to-style just about any trend.

a must read if you’re dating in your 30’s.

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The Verge

Tired of dating? This is about vulnerability, rejection, and the really hard part about being single when you're 30. Read this if you've ever experienced the following, and keep it as a reminder if you're having one of "those weeks".

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The Two Most ZEN things you can do in NYC

Living in NYC is hectic. I constantly find myself torn between wanting to be social and needing major downtime. If you're in need of glorious zen activities or have been on the search for the perfect place to self-reflect and unwind, I got you. Here are two things that I do on a regular basis that help keep me BALANCED…

Best Haircut in NYC is $40

I've probably found the best hidden salon in the entire city for haircuts and I'm sharing it with you. My hair has never been longer and it’s because I go here once a month…here’s how I afford to do so…

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I Got Ghosted by a Guy AND His Real Name Was Casper.

A flaky dating story that you’ll TOTALLY identify with. I can’t even make this up! Learn 5 ways to tell if the guy you're dating is emotionally unavailable and won't commit.

Dessert Before Dinner

When two people experimented by copying one of the greatest romantic-comedies of all time. Here’s one story of what it’s like to get into a “relationship” on day one aka having dessert before dinner.

The Fairy Tale Turned Reality Show

I've been on nearly 100 dates in my lifetime. Here's the story of my favorite one.

How To Lose a Popstar in 10 Weeks

Ever wondered what it's like to "date" someone famous? While mine was short, and mostly over the phone, here's my story...

I Haven't Been in Love in 7 Years

There's ONE mistake that's prevented me from falling in love.

Here's the difference between love and being "in love", a brief history of the last time I was, the root of why people settle, why we analyze relationships vs. go with our guts AND how god damn technology prevents us from finding it.

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